Moms and Ibadah: Self-Care in Ramadan
Because even when it feels like we’re doing less, Allah SWT sees the weight of every act done with love and sincerity.
When I first became a mom, I thought it would be a breeze—fasting while caring for a baby and my older children. Little did I know how exhausting it would be.
Breastfeeding, endless house chores, tending to my elder children, and squeezing in time to complete my freelance work—it all felt overwhelming. For the first time, I truly understood why Islam grants rukhsah (concessions) for pregnant and breastfeeding women.
I even had to pay fidyah because I couldn’t keep up with making up my missed fasts even after Ramadan. It was just too exhausting. Even my usual Quran recitation routine became a struggle. I once cried buckets, thinking I had failed as a servant of Allah while juggling multiple responsibilities.
But then I reminded myself—Allah ﷻ is the Most Merciful. Even in our darkest moments, He reassures us:
"لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ"
“Do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah.”
(Surah Az-Zumar: 53)
Today, my children have grown a little, and some struggles have begun to ease—though motherhood always comes with its challenges.
💭 This post is, first and foremost, a reminder to myself:
Set your intention. Accept your phase. Trust in Allah’s mercy.
May Allah ﷻ accept all our ibadah, ease our tasks, and grant every mother strength, love, and barakah this Ramadan. Amin.
To all mothers: You are doing well. Keep going. ❤️
Ramadan Kareem!
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